I love this topic so much because I know how stressful it can feel. If you’ve ever wondered what to wear for family photos, it is one of the first questions my families ask me, and I am always so happy to help.
The truth is, choosing outfits does not have to feel hard. It can actually be fun, simple, and even meaningful. Today, I’m walking you through my best tips so you can feel beautiful, comfortable, and completely yourself in your photos.
I’m Ashley, a Minneapolis family photographer and a mama who knows how meaningful these moments are. I also know that figuring out what to wear for family photos can feel overwhelming at first. My goal is to make this part feel simple and even a little fun so you can show up feeling comfortable and confident. I will guide you every step of the way so your session feels easy and relaxed. When you’re ready to plan your session, you can reach out here to book. I would love to connect with you.
With Mother’s Day coming up, this is such a meaningful time to step into the frame. My annual Celebrating Motherhood Event in Minneapolis is happening on April 18. Waitlist families receive priority booking on March 15, and public booking opens March 22.

Over the years, I have worked with so many sweet families, and I can promise you this. The best photos are not about perfect clothes. They come from connection. A baby reaching for you. A toddler snuggling into your shoulder. Laughter, movement, and love.
As you think about what to wear for family photos, try to shift your focus. Instead of asking, “Will this look perfect?” ask, “Does this feel like us?”
Feeling good shows in every image. When you are comfortable, your kids feel it too. That is where the magic happens.
I always share this, and I mean it with my whole heart. Start with your outfit.
You are often the one planning everything and making sure everyone is ready. So let’s make sure you feel amazing too.
Choose something you love. Maybe it is a soft, flowy dress. Maybe it is a cozy sweater and jeans that fit just right. Look for pieces that move with you and feel good on your skin.
I have seen how powerful this can be. Feeling beautiful changes everything. You stand taller, relax more, and smile with ease. Your family naturally follows that energy.
Once you pick your outfit, build everyone else around it. This makes the whole process feel easier. It also helps everything come together naturally.
If you’re looking for a Minneapolis family photographer, I’d love for you to read this guide so you can feel confident and ready before you book.


Next, let’s talk about color. This is where many families feel stuck when thinking about what to wear for family photos.
Here is the secret. Do not match. Instead, choose a color palette.
Here is a simple example:
This approach feels easy and looks beautiful. Most of all, it keeps the focus on your connection.
If you want photos that feel natural and full of real connection, this guide will help you feel relaxed and truly yourself during your session. Take a read and see how simple it can be.

If you have little ones, you already know. They are always moving. They want to run, climb, twirl, and snuggle all at once. So when you think about what to wear for family photos, comfort is key.
Choose clothes that let your kids move freely. Soft fabrics work best. Avoid anything itchy, tight, or stiff. If they feel uncomfortable, it will show quickly.
For babies, simple is best. A soft onesie, a cozy outfit, or a sweet neutral set is perfect. You don’t need many layers or accessories.
For toddlers and young kids, think about how they play. Make sure they can sit easily, run freely, and be picked up without fuss.
And for you, choose something you can move easily in. You will be holding your babies, kneeling, walking, and cuddling close. Your outfit should support that, not hold you back.
Some of my favorite moments happen when families forget the camera is even there. That only happens when everyone feels good in what they are wearing.
If you’re getting ready for your session, this checklist will help you feel calm, prepared, and ready to enjoy every moment. Take a quick read so you can show up relaxed and fully present with your family.


This is a big one, and it makes such a difference. When choosing what to wear for family photos, try to avoid large logos, bright graphics, or bold patterns. These can pull attention away from your faces and your connection.
Instead, go for soft textures and simple details. Think knits, linen, cotton, or gentle patterns like small florals or subtle stripes. These choices keep your photos feeling timeless. They also help your images age beautifully, so you still love them years from now.
Your photos are not about the clothes. They are about your love. So let’s keep the focus right where it belongs.
If you want your photos to live beyond your screen, this guide will show you how to turn them into meaningful pieces for your home.

Helping you decide what to wear for family photos is one of my favorite parts of the process. I love bringing everything together so you feel confident before your session begins.
When you book with me, I will guide you every step of the way. You can send outfit ideas, ask questions, and lean on me as much as you need.
I want you to show up feeling excited, not stressed.
At the end of the day, these photos are about more than outfits. They hold this season of your life. The way your child fits in your arms. The way your family laughs. The moments you never want to forget.
If you are ready to plan your session, you can reach out anytime. If you would like to learn more about my approach and what it feels like to work together, you can explore more here.
You can also take a look through my portfolio and follow along on Instagram to see more of the love and connection I get to capture every day. I would love to have you there.
Hoeft family
"Ashley and Troy have this profound magic of turning something as simple and routine as family photos into an absolutely joyous and momentous day."