Candid photos have a way of capturing what really matters, those tiny, in-between moments that show your family’s love and connection. A hand reaching out. A burst of laughter. The way your child looks at you when they think no one’s watching. These moments are real, and they’re often the ones we treasure most. In this blog, I’m sharing simple ways to help your family feel comfortable, let go of the pressure to pose, and create the kind of honest, heartwarming images you’ll hold onto forever.

Hi friend, I’m Ashley, a Minneapolis family and motherhood photographer who believes the best photos aren’t posed. They’re felt. If you’re dreaming of images that capture the real, joy-filled moments of your family’s connection, I’d love to help you create them. Let’s make space for laughter, movement, and love, just as you are. Reach out here to get started, take a peek at my portfolio to see more candid stories, or come say hi on Instagram for a behind-the-scenes look at life and sessions!

Why Candid Photos Matter More Than Perfect Poses

Posed photos have their place. They are neat, tidy, and predictable. But candid photos tell stories. A look, a hug, a laugh. These are the moments that show what life really feels like.

When we focus too much on perfection, we miss the small things. Like kids looking at each other, parents leaning in close, or a soft smile between laughs. Candid photos bring out your family’s heart and personality in a way that posed ones often can’t. When you’re not worried about standing still or smiling just right, you start to relax. You move freely. You connect. And that’s when the most beautiful moments unfold.

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What “Unposed” Really Means in a Family Session

When people hear “unposed,” they often think it means no direction at all. But in reality, it’s a thoughtful and relaxed approach that allows your family to feel comfortable while creating space for genuine connection. Here’s what that looks like during a session:

• You’ll be gently guided
  I offer simple prompts to help you settle in, like walking together, snuggling close, or sharing a quiet moment. Nothing forced, just little cues to get you moving naturally.
• Moments unfold at their own pace.
  Once you’re in the rhythm, I step back and let your family interact. That’s when the laughter, cuddles, and little in-between moments begin to shine.
• I look for what’s real.
  My focus is on connection. A shared look, a soft giggle, a hand reaching out. I’m always watching for the things that show your love without needing to pose for it.
• No stiff or awkward posing
  You won’t be holding a smile or standing in place too long. We keep it light and relaxed so you can truly enjoy the time together.
• Freedom to be yourselves.
  The goal is for you to forget the camera and enjoy each other. That’s when the magic of candid photos begins to happen.

These unposed moments are often the ones that feel most true to your family. They tell your story in a way that’s gentle, joyful, and real.

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How to Prep Your Family (Without Overthinking It!)

You don’t need to plan every detail. However, a little preparation can go a long way. Here are tips to prep without stress:

• Rest and eat well.
  Tired, hungry kids are harder to photograph. Try to fit in a good nap or some quiet time beforehand, and make sure they have a full belly before you arrive.
• Talk about expectations.
  Let your kids know what to expect in simple, gentle words. You might say, “We’re going to take fun photos. We’ll play and walk and hug.” Keep it light and low-pressure.
• Pick outfits that feel like you.
  Avoid matching uniforms and opt for soft, comfortable outfits in colors that complement each other well. Neutrals or simple prints are great. The goal is to feel good and move freely.
• Skip the last-minute rush.
  Give yourself plenty of time. Get ready early and plan to arrive a little ahead of schedule. A calm start helps set the tone for the whole session.
• Bring things to spark play.
  A cozy blanket, a favorite book, bubbles or a toy your child loves can turn into sweet, natural moments you’ll want to remember.

The key is balance: a little planning, lots of space to breathe. It helps set the stage without taking over the moment. When everyone feels relaxed and unhurried, there’s room for authentic connection to shine through.

Letting Kids Be Kids: Embracing the Playful, the Sweet, and the Wild

Kids are wild. They climb, jump, scream, and laugh. That is perfect for candid photos. Let them move. Let them explore. If your child runs ahead, don’t stop them; go with them. Let them lead the way. Sometimes chaos yields the most beautiful moments.

Encourage play. Spin them. Have them chase each other. Try a tickle fight. Ask them to whisper something silly. Watch their eyes light up. Also, don’t be afraid of quiet moments. A soft hug, a hand on a cheek, a gentle whisper, those are gold! When the noise dies down, connection shows up in stillness.

It’s okay if things don’t go “perfectly.” If a moment isn’t picture‑perfect, it might still show your real life, and that truth is far better than a perfect pose.

Best Location and Lighting Tips for Candid Photos

Select a space where your family feels at ease and comfortable. That might be an open field, a quiet forest path, your own backyard, or any place that feels familiar and easy. The more relaxed you feel, the more natural your moments will be.

Lighting is just as important. Soft, natural light creates a warm, gentle ambiance that fosters a sense of connection. Early morning or late afternoon is best for this. Try to avoid the bright midday sun, which can feel harsh and distracting.

Smaller, more intimate spots can also make a big difference. A cozy tree grove or a garden wall brings everyone closer together. That physical closeness often leads to emotional closeness, and that’s exactly what makes candid photos shine.

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Trust the Process: Why Connection Is Always Worth Capturing

It’s normal to wonder if things will go smoothly. Families sometimes worry. Will we look too messy? Will the kids cooperate? Will this even work? But the most meaningful images always come from trust. Trust that your children will have their moments to shine. Trust that even in the quiet, there is emotion. Trust that I am watching closely, ready to capture the in-between moments you may not even notice.

When you let go of perfection, something beautiful happens. You begin to relax. You laugh together. You move in close. And after a while, you might forget the camera is even there. That is when the most honest and heartfelt photos come to life.

It might feel a little awkward at first, and that is entirely okay. You do not have to start perfectly. You settle in, one moment at a time. My job is to gently guide you, to notice what is unfolding, and to hold onto the little things that truly matter. By the end, you will see images that feel like a part of your family. That is always my favorite part.

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Why Candid Photos Are the Moments That Matter Most

Candid photos have a quiet power. They show the little things we often miss, the way your child reaches for your hand, the laughter you share when no one’s watching, the warmth of simply being together. These moments may seem small in the moment, but they are the ones that stay with us. When you let go of perfect and embrace what’s real, your photos will tell a story that feels true to you.

I hope this guide helps you feel more at ease and excited to let go of the pressure, allowing you to enjoy the moment. If you’re ready to plan a session filled with connection, movement, and the kind of candid photos that feel like your family, I’d love to help you bring it to life. For more tips, behind-the-scenes moments, and early access to session dates, you can join my newsletter here. I’d love to stay connected!